Paul Gerald McKean Jr.

Paul Gerald McKean Jr., 45, of Denver, North Carolina, passed away on August 19, 2026. Paul was born on March 7, 1981, in Sayre, Pennsylvania. He was a loving husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and friend whose kindness and generosity touched the lives of so many.

Paul is survived by his beloved wife, Alice Lawing of Denver, NC; his children, Aiden, Dominic, Kristina, and Maylin; his parents, Paul McKean Sr. and Robin McKean of Denver, NC; his brother, David McKean; his sister, Melissa Ayer; as well as three nephews and three nieces, and many other family members and friends who loved him dearly.

Above all else, Paul loved his family. He cared deeply for the people in his life and would do anything for anyone in need. He had a generous heart, a willingness to help others, and a love for his family that will never be forgotten.

Paul also loved fishing and cherished the time spent enjoying the outdoors. The memories made with him, including his kindness, his love, and the moments shared with family and friends will be held close by everyone who knew and loved him.

Although our hearts are broken by this unimaginable loss, Paul’s love and the impact he had on those around him will live on forever. He leaves behind a space that can never be filled, but also a lifetime of memories that will continue to bring comfort and remind us of the love he gave so freely.

Paul will be deeply missed, forever loved, and never forgotten

19 Responses to Paul Gerald McKean Jr.

  1. Melissa Ayer August 20, 2026 at 3:02 pm #

    I love you and will forever miss you my wonderful big brother.

  2. Tina Price August 20, 2026 at 3:50 pm #

    Love and prayers to the family.

  3. April Muncy August 20, 2026 at 6:27 pm #

    I love u Paul and will miss u terribly. Omg buddy im so sorry. Too his family god bless yall.R.I.

  4. Jeff wilson August 20, 2026 at 6:50 pm #

    R.i.p paul. I appreciate the things you taught me(even the painful ones) and the memories I have with you bro..

  5. William Newell August 20, 2026 at 10:08 pm #

    . You were my friend. Idk what happened but I am truly saddened by this. I came by twice in the last 2 weeks and knocked but u didn’t respond. Wondered why u weren’t answering my messages. If I only opened the door and walked in, like I usually did. We coulda found u sooner. Fly high brother. You may be gone but never forgotten.

  6. Penny McKean Krotzer August 21, 2026 at 9:59 am #

    Pauly you were the first baby I have ever loved. I was 16 when you came into my life and that was the first time I knew what true love was. Thank you for giving me that. My heart is so broken. RIP my sweet Pauly I love you so much. I hope Grandma and all thr rest of our love ones are holding you in their loving arms. . Love Aunt Penny

  7. Malinda Gajus August 21, 2026 at 10:47 am #

    Paul,
    You saved my life for that I will always be truly appreciated. I was blessed to be called your friend. You will never be forgotten and will be missed.RIP my friend.

  8. Michell Alexander August 21, 2026 at 11:38 am #

    Damng man I can’t believe this. Ive been trying message you on FB and wondered why you weren’t answering. I hate i didn’t come hangout like you has asked me to. You kept asking me to and I never got to. You will be missed so much and I hope to see you again one day.

  9. Dorie Darrah August 21, 2026 at 11:54 am #

    Sending our condolences to the whole family. RIP Pauly Dorie, Dan , Jason Darrah

    • Coleen Bush August 22, 2026 at 7:49 am #

      I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort your family and keep you in the palm of his hand during this heartbreaking time.

  10. Marjie Noack August 21, 2026 at 1:18 pm #

    RIP my friend sorry we never got in that last pool game.
    I am still in shock and can’t believe you’re gone.
    I will miss you and always remember our talks ,
    you will be missed by many.
    good one taken to soon.
    L&R Till we meet again.

  11. Debby Hale August 21, 2026 at 8:09 pm #

    Pauley, you will be missed with the huge
    smile and tight hugs!
    You and Davey both have always given
    me the biggest hugs when I would see
    y’all out and about. I will miss your hugs!
    When we all used to hang out in the
    neighborhood between all the houses
    you were the first to pull a fast one on
    somebody being a clown then laugh
    the big belly laugh. Fly high sweet loving
    Pauley.

  12. Debby Hale August 21, 2026 at 8:11 pm #

    Paul, Robin, Moo, and Davey we are praying for you all!
    To Alicia and the kids as well.

  13. Traviscosby August 22, 2026 at 6:15 am #

    How buddy we become pretty close friends in the last year or so.I’m truly gonna miss you, buddy me and marry both will hold you in our hearts forever, one more guardian, angel for us. You big lug, love you, brother, we’ll see you again someday.

  14. Jake Artrip August 22, 2026 at 10:15 am #

    Man you help me out when I had nobody else, you barely even knew me at the time but still opened you home to me and became a very close friend. If it wasn’t for you and the help you gave me when I was down I wouldn’t be where I am today. I already knew that there wouldn’t be enough time left in this life time to ever pay you back but I thought I’d have more time to try. You were like a big brother to me and I’m going to miss you. Rip paul

  15. Daisy Angels Bentley August 22, 2026 at 2:28 pm #

    Paul you were like the brother I never had. You saved me more than once that’s for sure. & helped me many times when I had no where else to turn. You could always make me laugh. I will miss our talks so much! The silly ones, the deep serious ones & all the ones in between. You had faith in me & convinced me to have faith in myself again. I will forever be grateful to you my friend. I hope you know how much you are loved and appreciated. I will miss you dearly. RIP Paul. … til we meet again ❣️💔

  16. A. Muncy August 22, 2026 at 5:12 pm #

    Im missing you so much what happened you seemed
    Ok last I saw you we was having a beer you met my old
    Friend from way back, and we laughed so hard. I wish id
    Never left. I will always hold you in my memories as one of
    Of the greatest men I ever knew. To all the family im so sorry
    For your loss. He was an awesome friend.

  17. Roger and Anna Bennett August 23, 2026 at 8:22 pm #

    Paul, Robin & Family

    We are so sorry to hear of Pauline’s passing. May God comfort and bless you. We will keep all in our prayers.

    Roger and Anna Bennett

  18. Lacey August 25, 2026 at 4:54 am #

    Gone too soon. Gone WAY too soon! The biggest Teddy Near I SWAER! He’d give his shirt off his back for anyone The world needs more men like him. Not less. This one hits really hard. RIP Paul. Look over us all. This world needs it.

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